Machshava:

Chanukah,  Marriage 

Holidays:

Shmini Atzeret/Simchat Torah 

Parsha:

Vayeishev 

Collections: R' Rubenstein Chanuka

Description

What is the nature of the "Eiravon", the collateral, that Tamar takes from Yehuda? Why does Yosef speak Lashon Hara about the brothers, specifically about Eiver Min HaChai? If Yehuda is so concerned about brotherhood, why does he agree to sell Yosef? The answer is Achdus; a higher level of Achdus called "Arvus" which needed to achieved. This is the missing piece of the puzzle; the foundation of true 'Malchus' and the light of Chanuka.