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Collections: Rabbi Weinberger: Getting To Know Me

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P. 218. After getting married, a person will realize that their spouse has chesronos (lacks/flaws). The two ways to look at it are: 1. From the neshama (soul) - that this person in their totality is the one who Hashem wants for you. 2. From the guf (body) - to put in hishtadlus (effort) into fixing the problems through the natural means of cures and therapy. To build a strong Jewish home, doing hishtadlus is only part of the process. We also need emunah (faith) and bitachon (trust in Hashem). A person only living in the world of neshama and not guf will not be able to get married.