Yitro 5785-2025: Sanctify Them, Today and Tomorrow

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(updated and revised from Yitro 5766-2006)

In this week’s parasha, parashat Yitro, we read of the great Divine Revelation that took place at Mt. Sinai in the year 1313 B.C.E.

In Exodus 19:7, Moses calls the elders of Israel to consult with them regarding whether the people would accept G-d’s word and His Torah. The people, who apparently overheard the exchange, immediately respond (Exodus 19:8): כֹּל אֲשֶׁר דִּבֶּר השׁם נַעֲשֶׂה, “All that G-d has spoken, we will do!”

The Al-mighty then gives Moses instructions for the people to follow in anticipation of the Revelation. In Exodus 19:10, G-d instructs Moses: לֵךְ אֶל הָעָם, וְקִדַּשְׁתָּם הַיּוֹם וּמָחָר, וְכִבְּסוּ שִׂמְלֹתָם, “Go to the people and sanctify them today and tomorrow, and they shall wash their clothing.” G-d then tells Moses to inform the people to be prepared for the third day, because on that day G-d will reveal Himself to the entire people at Mt. Sinai.

Boundaries are to be established around the mountain, and strict warnings are to be given to the people not to ascend the mountain or even touch its edges, for those who touch the mountain, whether human or beast, shall surely die. Only after the conclusion of the Revelation, when the final shofar blast is sounded, may the people ascend the mountain once again.

There is a debate among the commentators about what the term, וְקִדַּשְׁתָּם—v’kidashtam, “sanctify them,” means. According to Rashi it means that the people should refrain from sexual relations so that they will be in an appropriate state of ritual purity for the Revelation. R’ Abraham Ibn Ezra maintains that the people needed to immerse themselves in a mikveh (ritual pool) for spiritual purification. Onkelos understands that the people should wash their clothing so they may be properly dressed in honor of the occasion. These three views represent differing opinions regarding whether the people need to cleanse themselves from contamination, to purify themselves mentally and spiritually, or to be in the proper frame of mind reflected by wearing appropriate clothing for the occasion.

There is also a difference of opinion between the sages regarding the meaning of the words in Exodus 19:11, יּוֹם הַשְּׁלִישִׁי, Yom haSlishi, the third day. R’ Yose in the Talmud, Shabbat 86b & 87a, states that Moses decided on his own, with G-d’s eventual approval, to add an extra day of preparation, even though G-d had originally indicated that two days would suffice. Therefore, according to R’ Yose, the Ten Commandments were given on the seventh of Sivan, not on the sixth. The Sages, however, disagree, and state that the words “three days” mentioned in this verse do not mean that an extra day was added, it is rather a restatement of what G-d had previously said. According to the Sages then, the Torah was given on the sixth of Sivan.

One of the popular contemporary commentators, Rabbi Mordechai HaCohen, in his volume, Al HaTorah, (volume II, page 215), makes an interesting observation regarding the words (Exodus 19:10): וְקִדַּשְׁתָּם הַיּוֹם וּמָחָר, and you shall sanctify them today and tomorrow. “Today,” at Sinai, says Rabbi Cohen, was easy to accomplish, but “tomorrow” was hard, and is hard.

This wonderfully insightful remark has much to teach us about our abilities to fulfill our own plans and resolutions. “Today,” on the day that the resolution is pronounced, the challenge seems relatively simple. All we need do is to put our minds to it, and it will be accomplished. “Today,” when we are in the yeshiva and have the support of the rabbis and our fellow students, it is easy. “Today,” when we are in New York, or Lakewood, or Jerusalem, where there are many religious institutions and an abundance of kosher food, it’s easy. But what about “tomorrow,” the day after we make the resolution, when we are no longer in the yeshiva, when we are in Wichita, Kansas or in Eilat–how will we fare? Will we be able to hold true to our commitments and our resolutions?

I have frequently advised that Jewish parents who hope to raise children who are balanced and moderate in their commitment to Judaism, that they must aim to be “passionate.” Parents who aim to be moderate, will have children who will feel “casual” about their Jewishness. Parents whose aim is casual, will, G-d forbid, wind up with Episcopalian grandchildren!

To a certain extent, those who wish to maintain and preserve a proper and secure Jewish identity among their family members, have to always feel as if they are surrounded by Sinai, as if they are in the same position as when the original commitment was made by their ancestors over three millennia ago. That is why some Jews today choose to live in Jewish ghettos, afraid of being exposed to much of the outside environment. While living a life entirely cut off from the modern world is certainly not what Judaism advocates, we do need to protect ourselves and our children. In order to keep our commitment strong, Jews need to make certain that the environment in which they live and thrive is a supportive environment, where the temptations are not overwhelming, so that they and their children will, at least, have a decent chance of succeeding Jewishly. And that can only happen if we see “tomorrow,” as if it is “today!”

For contemporary Jews, much of Jewish life is regarded as “tomorrow.” Unfortunately, there is very little “today.” There is very little feeling about and regard for the “mimetic” tradition, about the tradition of our grandfathers and grandmothers.

And so, when we say in our prayers, חַדֵּשׁ יָמֵינוּ כְּקֶדֶם, renew our days as of old, perhaps we are asking the Al-mighty to help us “return to the future,” to recreate for us the ancient experiences that strengthened the hands of our zaydes and bubbies, our grandpas and grandmas, who guided us through the spiritual minefields of generations past.

This is the challenge of the Divine Revelation, in this, our 21st century.

May you be blessed.

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Rabbi Ephraim Z. Buchwald

B’shalach 5785-2025: The Bones of Joseph

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(updated and revised from B’shalach 5766-2006)

This week’s parasha, parashat B’shalach, opens with millions of Israelites, many of them former slaves, departing from Egypt.

At this central moment, there is a sudden shift in theme. Scripture, in Exodus 13:19, tells us: וַיִּקַּח מֹשֶׁה אֶת עַצְמוֹת יוֹסֵף עִמּוֹ, כִּי הַשְׁבֵּעַ הִשְׁבִּיעַ אֶת בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל, לֵאמֹר, פָּקֹד יִפְקֹד אֱ־לֹקִים אֶתְכֶם, וְהַעֲלִיתֶם אֶת עַצְמֹתַי מִזֶּה אִתְּכֶם, that Moses took the bones of Joseph with him, for [Joseph] had made the children of Israel swear saying, “G-d will surely remember you, and you shall bring up my bones from here [Egypt] with you.”

One can just imagine Moses’ predicament! On nine previous occasions, Pharaoh had rejected Moses’ plea, and refused to allow the Jews to leave–even for a three day journey in the wilderness. Gentle Moses, the former prince of Egypt who had learned to care for his human flocks by training as a shepherd in Midian, was forced to visit G-d’s harsh punishments upon the leaders and the people of Egypt. Reluctant Moses, who claimed from the very start that he was neither a leader nor a speaker, now finds himself in charge of upward of two and a half million men, women and children, who need to be led out of Egypt. Since all of this takes place before Jethro, Moses’ father-in-law, helps him establish a judicial hierarchy to assist him with the administrative and legal responsibilities of Israel, Moses, at this trying time, is essentially alone.

Poor Moses must surely be overwhelmed with thousands of logistical details that need his “immediate” attention. And yet, scripture tells us that Moses diverts his attention away from the people to attend to the bones of Joseph and take them with him from Egypt for eventual burial in the Promised Land. Was there really no one else among the myriads of Israelites, to care for Joseph’s bones? What about Moses’ cousins, the Levites, who according to tradition were excused from serving as slaves? Couldn’t they assume the responsibility for Joseph’s remains?

It must be recalled, that Joseph did not merely request from his family to bring his bones out of Egypt. He made them take a sacred oath (Genesis 50:25), that they would fulfill his wish. That oath needed to be honored, and Moses felt compelled to do so.

Furthermore, even more than the oath, perhaps Moses felt particularly committed to personally attend to Joseph’s remains because it was Joseph who had bequeathed the legacy of hope to the Jewish people, to never lose faith that redemption from Egypt would eventually come. After all, it was Joseph, who with his last breath, not only adjured them to take his bones out of Egypt, but assured the people that G-d will remember them and redeem them from Egypt when he said (Genesis 50:25): פָּקֹד יִפְקֹד אֱ־לֹקִים אֶתְכֶם, וְהַעֲלִתֶם אֶת עַצְמֹתַי מִזֶּה, “G-d will surely remember you, and you must bring my bones up out of here.”

It was indeed Joseph’s spirit and commitment that kept the dream of ultimate freedom alive in the hearts of the downtrodden and suffering slaves. In fact, scripture records that it was Joseph’s original words (Genesis 50:24): וֵא־לֹקִים פָּקֹד יִפְקֹד אֶתְכֶם, “G-d will surely remember you,” that Moses uses with the people in order to legitimize his mission (Exodus 3:16). Those exact words were the words that sparked hope in the people (Exodus 4:31) and inspired them with the faith that they were to be redeemed. It was Joseph and his legacy of redemption that provided the link to the prophecy of redemption that convinced the Jewish people to believe in Moses and have faith in his mission.

The commentators find additional connections between the bones of Joseph and the mission of Moses. Several commentators note that the words עַצְמוֹת יוֹסֵף–“atz’mot Yosef,” the bones of Joseph, may be read with a variant punctuation as, עַצְמוּת יוֹסֵף–“atz’mut Yosef,” meaning the “essence” of Joseph. It was, they say, not the bones, but the essence of Joseph that assisted Moses in his mission.

Rabbi Menachem Mendel Hager of Kosov notes that, while Moses was a rather ethereal person, Joseph was essentially a material person. As scripture states (Genesis 42:6): וְיוֹסֵף הוּא הַמַּשְׁבִּיר, Joseph distributed food to all. The rabbis consequently conclude that, in an attempt to be more balanced, Moses incorporated within himself the essence of Joseph so that he might influence the people both spiritually and materially.

A slight variant of Rabbi Menachem Mendel’s interpretation is that Moses incorporated within himself the kindness of Joseph that would serve as the guiding principle of his leadership. Just as Joseph responded to his brothers’ mistreatment of him with kindness, so Moses committed himself to exhibit the same type of patience with his flock, responding to their obstinate and provocative behavior with care and concern (Iturei Torah).

The Talmud (Sotah 13a), notes that while the rest of the people of Israel were busy looting Egypt of its wealth, Moses was concerned with evacuating the bones of Joseph. While it is true that the looting of Egypt was also a Divine command (Exodus 11:2), Moses’s actions were entirely altruistic, without any possible personal benefit to himself.

Another important lesson that emerges from Moses’s behavior was that he did not consider it beneath his dignity to personally exhume Joseph’s bones and carry the bones up to the land of Canaan himself. While Moses would soon learn from his father-in-law, Jethro, the importance of delegating responsibility, there were certain tasks that Moses considered either too important or too sensitive to delegate. Moses, the hands-on leader, was not at all reluctant to “sully” his hands when the need arose.

Too often, we hear contemporary leaders complain that they have too little time for the “real things” in life. Perhaps it is because they are too busy giving orders to hundreds, if not thousands, of others. The well-known aphorism, “We never stand so tall as when we stoop to help others,” is a message that should constantly resonate within all leaders and followers. It certainly reflects the message that we learn from our leader Moses, the most humble human being to walk the face of the earth, as exemplified by his total concern for the bones of Joseph.

May you be blessed.

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In parashat Yitro we read of the Revelation at Sinai, and the special preparations the people had to make for the Revelation. G-d tells Moses to inform the people that they should be sanctified “today and tomorrow.” Our commentators state that “today” may be easy to remain sanctified, but “tomorrow” is not always easy. This message applies not only to the generation of the revelation at Sinai, but to us as well. The tests that the ancients faced, are, in fact, very much the same challenges that we face today in the 21st century.

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