<p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';" lang="EN-GB"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">It is customary at an aufruf to throw sweets (candies) at the choson, and sometimes some of those attending bring their own sweets to throw. It could be that the kashrus of some of these sweets is questionable, or even worse. As soon as the sweets are thrown, children will rush to pick them up and by that time it will be well nigh impossible to retrieve and check them. Therefore the ba&rsquo;alei simcha should try and find a tactful way to control which sweets are thrown.</span></span></span></p>